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Leo & Leandra Archives Question 11
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Dear Leandra & Lou

I am really close friends with an amazing guy, we get along in so many ways....but I have developed romantic feelings for him and he has dropped some hints that he has also for me but isn't ready for anything serious now.
I think he is afraid of losing our friendship if things don't work out. Should I wait and be his friend or should I keep looking? I don't want to drive him to someone else in my impatience.

so-close-and-yet-so-far

Dear so-close,

I think friendship is the second greatest thing a man and woman can share together, can you guess the first?

If you both have romantic feelings for each other, they will surface soon enough. You two must get these feelings out in the open.

If he isn't ready for anything serious yet, can't you start out slow with him? If you start your romantic relationship slow, if things aren't going to work out you may see them a bit quicker, especially if your eyes are open.

Most of the time, if you are good friends now, you will remain good friends if it doesn't work out.

Good Luck
Leandra

Dear so-close,

Let life happen. If you have known this guy for awhile, then maybe how you feel isn't rushing it. If it has only been few weeks, maybe you might want to give it some more time.

From the tone of your email, it sounds that this has been going on for awhile. If you are his friend, you are his friend.

If you want more, than I think honesty is the best policy. If you are TRULY friends, then this admission of how YOU feel shouldn't hinder it.

If it does, than maybe the friendship wasn't as strong as you thought it
was.

Yours in service,
Lou

 

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