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Dear Leo & Leandra

This guy back when I started with NJ-Singles has kind of either Poof-TA-DAed me or emailed me occasionally.

Now we have really been emailing each other quite frequently and I would like to maybe meet him for coffee. He did mention doing just that once. Then I emailed him if he was going to the next NJ Singles event and he said he's not sure. I would like to meet him even if it is just for coffee or something. Should I bring this up to him again? I have left some hints in emails like meeting at diner we both know.

I am quite shy and afraid I will scare him off if I mention it. Should I leave more hints or just go for it and ask?

Please Help
The Shy Girl

Dear The Shy Girl,

GO FOR IT !!!!! What do you have to lose? It's best to get over your shyness It's really not such a big
deal, just say you were thinking of heading to the dinner and was wondering if he would like to join you …...simple huh?

If he says no then tell him …. Thanks for your response so the after dinner sex has to be out too….LOL
See yea around.

He will shoot himself! Contact me tell me what happened and I'll meet you in 10minutes ...ok

good luck shy girl
Leo :)

Dear The Shy Girl,

It seems that you two are off to a good start. If he e-mailed or POOFed you first, that means he is interested. Sometimes people's busy lives get in the way of going out and socializing with the group. This is understandable, I
am sure. You two have 'chatted' about meeting for coffee or at an event, that IS the first move. Between us girls, sometimes men do not quite pick up our subtle hints. It seems to me that the hard part is already done. Go for it and ask him if he would like to meet one night for coffee. Coffee is not dinner and may be a less threatening invitation.


Good Luck, and let us know!

Leandra

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