Dear Leo & Leandra

I've just lost someone I thought was my soul mate after nine months of long distance telephone conversations. Before I could fly out to see her (shortly after she left her abusive husband), she met, slept with and accepted another man's proposal in the span of a week. Was I a fool for not seeing how flaky she was earlier, or was I stupid for not rescuing her from a bad marriage?

Truly,
Lost Soul

Dear Lost Soul,

Dude, you are lucky you didn't waste your time flying out to see her , she seems to be a nut. She meets, sleeps and wants to marries someone in one week?! Come on now......she's...

Koo-Koo!

She'll be happy to see those nice young men, in their clean white coats, and they're coming to take her away Ha haaa. ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK GOD FOR YOU.....move on ...there are many beautiful women on NJ-Singles.com Go for one of them....(just one) the rest are mine.

Leo

Dear Lost Soul,

If you lost her, then my dear, she wasn't your soul mate. You are not a fool. Sometimes people come and go in our lives.

It seems you helped her gain the courage to pick up and leave an abusive relationship. As much as it hurts that you two are not together, have comfort in you what you did for her and how you helped her.

Pick yourself up and lick your wounds. You are a good catch and your soul mate is still out there waiting for you.

Leandra